Week 2 Family Dynamics

There are several theories that try to explain how families work as a whole. The systems theory is explained as parts working together to create a whole, it sets roles, rules and boundaries. The exchange theory can be described as striving to keep costs lower than rewards in interaction: you do favors to get favors. Symbolic interaction theory is explained as how different people perceive interacting experiences differently. A head nod might mean something different to on person than to another. Also, their thoughts and beliefs can be changed by an experience. The conflict theory is when people strive to meet their needs by interacting with the people who have the resources. It is a power struggle, whoever has power is going to "win."

I understand my family well using the systems theory. I learned through this class how important boundaries are. Everyone should have a clear boundary with every one in the family. This means you define what is and is not acceptable to share or be involved in. An example of a clear boundary between a mother and father is they communicate well, and let each other know what works and what doesn't work for them. A rigid boundary is where you don't communicate very well with the family member; you maybe avoid them, or go around them and don't share feelings with them. An open boundary is where you may share too much information with a family member that can hinder your relationship. An example is a  mother sharing information about the father to her daughter. This open boundary does not help the family work together to become whole. In my family I have noticed all three sets of boundaries. It has really helped me notice what my family needs to work on.