Week 11 Parenting

Parenting is a divine role and an important responsibility to do effectively. There are three main types of parenting: Authoritarian, Permissive, and Authoritative (or active).  Authoritarian parenting is when the parents exercise maximum control and demand full attention and obedience. Discipline is likely to be severe and physical. Permissive parenting is when the parents minimize any control. Minimal guidance is given and the child feels they can get away with anything. The parent may not practice any discipline and be accepting of any behavior. Authoritative or active parenting is when the parents put boundaries on acceptable behavior through warmth toward the child. Their interactions with the child are with affection, and they encourage wise decision making. The latter technique is most Christ-like and is the most effective way to parent. President Thomas S. Monson said, "To you who are parents, I say, show love to your children. You know you love them, but make certain they know it as well. They are so precious. Let them know. Call upon Heavenly Father for help as you care for their needs each day as you deal with challenges which inevitably come with parenthood. You need more than your own wisdom in rearing them."

One other important factor in parenting is mention in The Family Proclamation, "Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity."

This is so powerful to me, children are ENTITLED to come to earth to a married couple who honor marital vows with complete fidelity! It is our job to provide that for them!